Take a deep breath and count to ten

Okay. Breathe in. Breathe out. Slowly.

1. She's only three. You shouldn't have expectations of her behavior that don't match her age.
But she's running around like a maniac. We had a photographer here. It was embarassing

2. She is supposed to talk back and disobey.
All the time? I'm sooo tired of it today.

3. If you remain calm, she will too.
Are you serious? Since when have I had any control over her?

4. Go take a walk and cool down.
I would if I could. Julia is sleeping. She's sick right now, and I'm stressed about it. I can't leave you know who in charge while I take a stroll to chill out.

5. Take a breath.
If I breathe anymore I will hyperventilate.

6. Being strong-willed is an asset. You'll be thankful for that characteristic when she's an adult. She's not going to let anyone put her in the corner.
I have to wait until adulthood. That's like fifteen years from now. My hair is already going gray.

7. Happy thoughts. Happy thoughts.
Vacations without children, dinner without children, sleeping in, going on dates.

8. Do you really want a kid that's pliable?
Yes. Well, no. I want her to be true to herself. I just hate the fighting.

9. Then don't fight.
Easier said than done. But I'll give it a try.

10. Where are you going? I have more advice......


Come on Grace, your sister's awake.
Let's go outside and take a walk.
Oh, you want to hold my hand?
Yes, I like that too.
I love you too, honey.
Now let's go have some fun.