Tuesday, February 23, 2010

A day in the life

Craig asked his class to chronicle how they spend their days. How much time in class? How much time on the phone, on the internet, walking, driving, sleeping? And it got me thinking about how I spend my time, which turned into the entry posted below. And then I deleted that post because who the hell cares how I spend my day. Google reader somehow picked up that entry up before I hit delete, so I had hits coming to the blog. Crap. Re-post.

There's nothing controversial about what I wrote. I hit delete because, my god, how boring. That's my life in paragraph form. I didn't actually keep track of the time I spent on my activities, which Craig's class is doing, and I'm sure I'd be more than a little horrified by how much time I spend on the internet. Truth: I often check my email before I do anything else in the morning. Why? Because my job, the work I'm paid to do, is never done by the time I go to bed, and I'm almost always in meetings by 9 am, for which I need to be prepared. Is that my excuse? Sigh.

The other thing missing from my log? Physical activity. Walking to and from meetings and Grace's school just doesn't cut it. I do not work out. I'm ashamed to admit this, but not quite enough to do anything about it. Apparently I would rather just complain about my muffin top and my aching back. What else did I leave out? Real time with my husband. It's just not happening at the moment. We try to talk to each other after dinner and sometimes at lunch, but it's almost always about work or the kids or to say how sorry we are that we aren't spending more time together. Sigh again.

There are other omissions: grocery shopping (twice a week, two gallons of milk, my girls are like teenage boys), other shopping (oh the guilt, even though I now have a paying job, I still can't shake the guilt over every single purchase I make), cleaning the house (never-ending, the kitchen floors alone need to be swept twice daily, but are only really swept every other day), and laundry (did I mention laundry, my god, I do A LOT of laundry). In the end, I still have tons of down time (and plenty of guilt about that too).

The question I posed at the end of my last entry remains: how do you, person whom I may or may not know, whom visits this site, spend your time? Think of answering that question as anonymous anecdotal evidence for Craig's class? I'm truly interested.

2 comments:

Sarah, Andy, Murdoch, and Deucey said...

Do you really want to know? Workday(two flavors Andy traveling or Andy not traveling) or weekend?

Weekday - that doesn't involve Andy traveling:

4:45 AM - Get up
Then shower, get ready, pump, take dog out, get lunch ready
5:50 AM - Leave for work
6:25 Am - arrive at work
6:25 - 11:50 - Work
11:50 - 1:15 - Workout
1:15 - 5 - Work
5 - 6 Commute and pick up baby
6 arrive home - if kid isn't home yet run around for 15 minutes to get things done that would usually take 2 hours with him at home
6-8 - Feed kids, play with them, bath if I am motivated, teeth, maybe bathroom on the potty, etc.
8 - 10 - Try to relax, maybe work more, get ready for the next day, dishes, random picking up of junk in house, maybe a load of laundry
10 - Try to make it to bed by then.

Without Andy involves all of the getting kids up and ready and out of the house by 7:45 and more stuff in the evenings. Weekends involve spinning at 8:30 AM on Saturday - had to add that in! Some type of kid activity, maybe we go over to someone's house on Saturday night. House work, cleaning, and I am thinking of adding in a bottle of champagne/prosecco - I need that!

Ellen said...

I have to get Craig to post his actual results! Turns our he's a social little butterfly, and spends most of his time socializing (with me and the kids included).